(November 10, 2025) My problems with James Pilton have been very difficult for me and now I am trying to find my future without this nightmare defining me. Thank you for emails of support. Your responses have been very helpful. I am not answering emails from now though.
I have decided to leave this behind and to only deal with it personally. If you have experienced this please know that you are not to blame. Maybe you have blame for drinking or being foolish but don’t confuse this with blame for what happened to you. He chose this and he is to blame 100 percent. Get therapy and maybe talk with good friends. I was surprised how many friends have been through this and had not told anyone.
Thank you to the people who wrote me and to the person who wrote today. The time was good for me to hear you and you put me on the spot to make decisions.
(September 24, 2025) His name is James Pilton. He is a terrible man. He is German and I guess American. He is from Villingen-Schwenningen, Germany. He was a teacher and principal, but was fired for doing awful things to women. That’s why he is in the Philippines.
There is a website about him at JamesPilton.com.
Thank you to the people who helped me find this information. It’s terrible, but it’s also a relief to know. I have to decide what to do next. If I contact the police, they may want me to come back. I never want to see him again. He is disgusting.
(September 17, 2025) With help from two kind people I know his name and have information about him. I have a therapy appointment next week and I will decide then or after then what I will do with this information and with this website. I will leave my email address above for anyone who wants to contact me.
To the man who told me, thank you for your trust and support. Please read the email I sent to you.The people who rely on you must feel protected. Thank you.
(September 16, 2025) To the woman who told me about James, thank you for your support. You were the first person to help me and it means a lot to me. I fear the reason you needed to contact me in the way you did and it makes me want to give you a big hug. I am crying right now. If you want to email me my address is jademiller4141@gmail.com. Big hugs.
(September 3, 2025) I had a bad experience when I was drinking at TLTGUESTHOUSES and James was there. He says he is an owner. I was drunk and it went very bad for me. I want to know his full name and where he is from so I can see if this is a thing he does or if maybe it was an accident. Jessy says she is the only owner but James said he was the owner. She will not give me any information about him to look him up, so I am more suspicious that she knows. When I asked her on Instagram, she blocked me. Please contact me if you know about him at jademiller4141@gmail.com.
I only need to know his full name, if it is James, and what country and city he is from.